At the beginning of this year, . The Bay Area native opted for a natural birthing process, being assisted by a midwife as she gave birth in the comfort of her own bathtub. l but, to cap off the decade, the songstress chose to let us in on a very private moment she shared with Adeya Nomi, nursing her daughter moments after giving birth.

Kehlani Breast-Feeds Newborn Baby In Photo From Home Birth
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Posting a photo of herself and her newborn from March, declares her baby girl as her “greatest flex of the decade.” Noting that childbirth was the hardest and greatest thing she’s ever experienced, she sent a message to her daughter on social media. 

“& to my greatest flex of the decade… in the bathroom at the crib in Oakland in the morning in March… thank you 2019 for the greatest gift of all time. hardest and greatest thing i’ve ever done. a year i will never ever ever forget. Adeya Nomi Parrish THANK YOU FOR ALL THAT YOUVE GIVEN ME!”

Hopefully, the next decade blesses Kehlani and Adeya with all the happiness in the world.