J. Cole Reveals Why He No Longer Views Drake and Kendrick Lamar as Competition

J. Cole is no longer trying to compete.

Fresh off the release of The Off-Season, the Dreamville champ paid a visit to The ETCs podcast with Kevin Durant and Eddie Gonzalez, where he reflected on his career and relationship with fellow rappers Drake and Kendrick Lamar, which has evolved over time. While they came up together, he has learned to value friendship over competitiveness.

These are the guys that push you, and you gotta push them, said Cole. I was so competitive early on that, like, even though we were all friends, Ive never been a reach out, Ive never been that person, especially when its competition involved. Its almost like working out together.

When he was younger, he had a more competitive mentality, which has changed with age. I guess in the NBA in the past that was unheard of. Like, Why would I work out with this ni**a? Im trying to destroy this ni**a. That was kind of my mentality early on, he said. But as Ive gotten older, I realize that no one is truly my peer or can relate to what Im going through in life more than these people right herejust in terms of whatever pressures there might be Nobody can really relate to that like these dudes, and I really genuinely f**k with these dudes.

He was able to stop viewing them as competition and more as friends. Ive been absolutely trying to make an effort as time goes on, to strip the competition from me, he said. Im more interested in the relationship cause I also see a time when Im not doing this. That seems very realistic to me.

Added Cole, Im more interested in the genuine relationship. Before I was interested in the competition. Before I was just interested in putting pressure or responding to pressure Its just less competition in my mind cause ni**as is old, bro.

However, he always had respect for his peers. It was always a respect thing. Now its just more of a wisdom thing where its like, Yo, you can never have it all.’

Michael Jordan will never be universally hailed as the greatest player of all timeand thats insane. And LeBron James will never be universally hailed as the greatest player of all timeand thats insane. Youll never have it, so it comes with age to realize that like, Yo, what are you even worried about? Cause youre just setting yourself up for suffering.

Elsewhere in the podcast, Cole opened up about fulfilling his professional basketball dreams. On Sunday, the Fayetteville rapper made his debut playing for the Rwanda Patriots BBC in the inaugural season of the Basketball Africa League.

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